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I am through with “Witch of Portobello”. Though, it is not as per my expectation like other books written by Paulo Coelho, enlighten spiritual energy thorugh so called Witch character.

Overall rating : ***

Food for thoughts from this book:

“No one lights a lamp in order to hide it behind the door: the purpose of light is to create more light, to open people’s eyes, to reveal the marvels around.”

“No one places her dreams in the hands of those who might destroy them.”

“When reason lost the battle, and all I could do was surrender and accept that i was in love.”

“If there is any possible consolation in the tragedy of losing someone we love very much, it’s the necessary hope that perhaps it was for the best.”

“How many of us will be saved the pain of seeing the most important things in out lives disappearing from one moment to the next? I don’t just mean people, but our ideas and dreams too: we might survive a day, a week, a few years, but we’re all condemned to lose. Our body remains alive, yet, sooner or later, our soul will receive the mortal blow.”

“No one can manipulate anyone else. In any relationship, both parties know what they are doing, even if one of them complains later on that they were used.”

“It isn’t good to speak ill of people who have passed from this life onto the astral plane.”

“….She was always flirting with danger. They say extroverts are unhappier than introverts, and have to compensate for this by consatantly proving to themselves how happy and contented and at ease with life they are.”

“If man we don’t know phones us up one day and talks a little, makes no suggestions, says nothing special, but nevertheles pays us the kind of attention we rarely receive, we’re quite capable of going to bed with him that same night, feeling relatively in love. That’s what we women are like, and there’s nothing wrong with that - it’s the nature of the female to open herself to love easily.”

“Her greatest problem was that she was a woman of the twenty-second century living in the twenty-first, and making no secret of the fact either.”

“I’ve lived on a battlefield since i was born, but i’m still alive and i don’t need anyone to protect me.”

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.”

“I am only happy when i think that God exists and is listening to me; but that isn’t enough to go on living, when nothing seems to make sense. I pretend a happiness i don’t feel;  I hide my sadness so as not to worry those who love me and care about me.”

” If i don’t feel life growing inside me, I’ll never be able to accept life outside me.”

“My real family left forever. And the family i’d been born into received me with open arms.”

“When the pain abated - and time is the only cure for that.”

” You can’t measure love the way you can the length of a road or the height of a building.”

“Because all my life I’ve learned to suffer in silence.”

“In life, too, it’s the culminating point, the goal of all those who, like everyone else, make mistakes, but who, even in their darkest moments, never lose sight of the light emanating from their hearts.”

“I’ve noticed that loneliness gets stronger when we try to face it down, but gets weaker when we simply ignore it.”

“Her silence was the blank spaces between the words.”

“I don’t see why i should bother to look for someone who never took trouble to love me.”

“If you’re not in touch with your roots, you feel as if you’d lost touch with the world.”

“… seeks contact with the upper and lower world, but always ends up destroying her own life - she serves others, gives out energy, but receives nothing in return.”

“..It’s because for those who travel, time doesn’t exist, only space.”

“The light is unstable, the wind blows it out, the lightning ignites it, it is never simply there, shining like the sun, but it is worth fighting for.”

“We’re surrounded by Universal Desire. It’s not happiness; it’s desire. And desires are never stisfied, because once they are, they cease to be desires.”

“Belive in your ablilities; believe that you have already arrived where you wanted to arrive.”

“Faith is not desire. Faith is Will. Desires are things that need to be satisfied, whereas Will is a force. Will changes the space around us.”

“Instead of trying to prove that you’re better than you think, just laugh. Laugh at your worries and insecurities. View your anxieties with humour. It will be difficult at first, but you’ll gradually get used to it.”

“It was more important to give than to receive, but while these were wise words, i was part of what is known as ‘humanity’, with frailties, my moments of indecision, my desire simply to live in peace, to be the slave of my feelings and to surrender myself without asking any questions, without even knowing if my love was reciprocated.”

“We are not the slaves of our feelings, but their masters. We serve and are served.”

“When hatred makes a person grow, it’s transformed into one of the many ways of loving.”

I talk. A lot. All my friends know that once I get started, I usually don’t shut up, especially if it involves talking about myself. As I’ve become more aware of this fact over the last few years, I’ve consciously made the effort to shut my mouth and listen more. As hard as I try, I still talk a lot, and I talk loudly.

I don’t, however, talk about my emotions. I’ll discuss anger towards politics, or happiness about going to the beach, or sleepiness when I’m exhausted. But I don’t discuss my feelings about my relationships, and I definitely don’t talk about the break-up.

I have a hard time asking for help, of any kind. I’m independent and refuse to show any sign of weakness. Because of this, I wait to express myself until I can’t hold it in anymore. Then I lose my shit for about an hour, and then I’m over it again. 

Luckily for me, I have amazing friends. Amazing friends who realize this about me. After reading this post on my blog, i am sure they will be worried about me and are there for me if I need them. They understand that talking about it isn’t my thing, and they don’t push the issue.

The thing is, I don’t mind talking about it because it makes me emotional - it doesn’t. I just don’t want to talk about it because it’s not productive. Logically, I have it all figured out. I know why he left, I know what he was thinking, where he was coming from, and that there was nothing I did to cause it (or could do to fix it). I fully understand the reasoning and I’m confident that I’m going to fall in love again and find a wonderful person and eventually will end up with The One. I know these things - in my head.

My heart hasn’t exactly caught up. It’s been a struggle to keep my head and my heart from communicating these past few months. I’ve been mostly successful, but there have been a few instances where I’ve just let it all go. This is healthy, and I don’t fight it when it comes. I just don’t want him to consume my life. I don’t let men consume my life after they’ve left me.

I just need time. I need time to think and to process and to forgive and to forget and to heal. My friends are giving me that, and I love them for it. I know that when I want to talk about it, they’ll listen. They’ll listen and not offer advice unless I ask for it. It’s not the advice I need - I give that to myself with my logical head. I just sometimes need comfort for my heart. 

Stood on the corner for a while 
To wait for the wind to blow down on me 
Hoping it takes with it my old ways 
And brings some brand new luck upon me 
Oh it’s taking so long I could be wrong, i could be ready 
Oh but if I take my heart’s advice 
I should assume it’s still unsteady 
I am in repair, I am in repair 

In Repair - John Mayer

Yesterday, i was at home whole day due to heavy raining. Fortunately or unfortunately, didn’t do anything. Even Cable was disconnected. Thank God, electricity was there. But as said, blessing in disguise, i forgot my charger at office so even though laptop with me, i couldn’t do much. Just watching the water movement till 3.00 in the afternoon. Our ground floor was floating in the water. Then i went for hair-cutting as got bored with same look though it has been only two months i changed the hair-style. Then one of my friend came to my place and without intimating me clicked hell of snaps. Once i came to know, i became bit conscious. But overall good timepass. Some of the madness of two mad trying to be wise:

 

Oh la la.. baby..

 

oh i am going to kill you...

Bhoot hoon main

O lovely.. watching raining.tum itna jo muskura rahe ho... kya gum hain jisko chupa rahe ho..

:-)

સમયનો સાદો નિયમ છે કે એ અટકતો નથી

નિયમ છે પ્રેમનો સાદો કે એ કદિ ટકતો નથી

તમારો સાદો નિયમ છે કે સૌને ભટકાવો ને

મારો સાદો નિયમ છે કે હું ભટકતો નથી

 

કોણ ભલાને પૂછે છે? અહીં કોણ બૂરાને પૂછે છે?
મતલબથી બધાને નિસ્બત છે, અહીં કોણ ખરાને પૂછે છે?
અત્તરને નિચોવી કોણ પછી ફૂલોની દશાને પૂછે છે?
સંજોગ ઝુકાવે છે નહીંતર અહીં કોણ ખુદાને પૂછે છે?

 

જીવનમાં મુશ્કેલીઓ તો અનેક હોય છે.
પરંતુ, તે દરેકનો એક રસ્તો હોય છે.
અને એ રસ્તો એને જ મળતો હોય છે
કે જેનો ચહેરો સદાય હસતો હોય છે

Song of the day

This song is from movie “Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na”

Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Zindagi Me Yun Hi Koi Apna Lagta Hai
Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Woh Bichad Jaye Toh Ek Sapna Lagta Hai
Aise Me Koi Kaise Apne Aansuon Ko Bahene Se Roke
Aur Kaise Koi Sochle  Everything Gonna Be Okay
Kabhi Kabhi Toh Lage Zindagi Me Rahi Na Khushi Aur Na Maza
Kabhi Kabhi Toh Lage Har Din Mushkil Aur Har Pal Ek Saza
Aise Me Koi Kaise Muskuraaye ,Kaise Has De Khush Hoke
Aur Kaise Koi Sochle  Everything Gonna Be Okay

Soch Zara Jaane Ja Tujuko Hume Kitna Chahte Hain
Rote Hum Bhi Agar Tere Aankhon Me Aansun Aate Hain
Gaan Toh Aata Nahi Hai Magar Fir Bhi Gaate Hain
Hey Aditi Maan Kabhi Kabhi Saare Jahan Me Andhera Hota Hai
Lekin Raat Ke Baad  Hi Toh Savera Hota Hai

Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Zindagi Me Yun Hi Koi Apna Lagta Hai
Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Woh Bichad Jaye Toh Ek Sapna Lagta Hai
Hey Aditi Has De Has De Has De Has De Has De Tu Zara
Nahi Toh Bas Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Muskura

Tu Khush Hai Toh Lage Ke Jahan Chaiyi Hai Khushi
Sooraj Nikle Baadalon Se Aur Baaten Zindagi
Sun Toh Zara Madhosh Hawa  Tujhse Kehne Lagi
Ki Aditi Woh Jo Bichadte Hain Ik Na Ik Din Fir Mil Jate
Yeh Aditi Jaane Tu Ya Jaane Na Phool Fir Khil Jate Hain

Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Zindagi Me Yun Hi Koi Apna Lagta Hai
Kabhi Kabhi Aditi Who Bichad Jaye Toh Ek Sapna Lagta Hai
{Hey Aditi Has De Has De Has De Has De Has De Tu Zara
Nahi Toh Bas Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Thoda Muskura}

You don’t know it yet,
But one day you’re gonna have regrets.
When you realize your foolish ways,
You’re gonna love me one day.
And it might take some time,
But my love is like a vintage wine.
And it gets better as it grows with age, hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.

You’ll be sorry, you’ll be blue,
And there’s nothin’ I can do.
‘Cos everything you’ve done to me,
Is comin’ back to you.

And when you see the light,
And you’re havin’ lots of sleepless nights,
Will you dream about your castaways? Hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.

-

You’ll be sorry, you’ll be blue,
And there’s nothin’ I can do.
‘Cos everything you’ve done to me,
Is comin’ back to you.

And when you see the light,
And you’re havin’ lots of sleepless nights,
Will you dream about your castaways? Hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.

Har kisiko mukkammal jahan nahi milta
kisiko zamin to kisiko asmaan nahi milta
aur kuch loosers aise bhi hai jinko saala kuch bhi nahi milta

 

Koi Jab tumahara Hriday tor de,
Tadapta huye tumhe chor de,
Tab tum mere paas aana priye….
apan ke kaleje ko thandak milegi
tumhe tadapta dekh ke

 

“I am your need. Needs change.”

 

“Dreams, Desires,Hopes,Expectations, A touch, A kiss…A long Road…A destination Unknown.. That’s life for me”

 

I got the e-mail from one of my fnd about kind of persons we meet everyday in our life. I thought to share it with the world.

I am sending this to you to see how many actually read my post. Your response will be interesting. Pay attention to what you read.  After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason why it was shared with you.  Here goes:

 

 

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.  When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.  When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.  They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,  this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

 

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

 

 

 

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“Veronika decides to die”

Let me clarify that this is about Veronika and not me. I really love myself and want to live atleast i achieve my goals. So dont get me wrongly.

I have started to read this book, as name suggest, full of negativity. I finsihed this book in installment rather than going thorugh the one shot. But as I am optimistic, i tried to find positivity in this negative story. One thing is very sure, madness is resides in each human being. It is the extent each one express in his/her own way. Some of the excerpts from Veronika decides to die:

“Veronika knew that life was always a matter of waiting for the right moment to act.”

” During her life, Veronika had noticed that a lot of people she knew would talk about the horrors in other people’ lives as if they were genuinely concerned to help them, but the truth was that they tool pleasure in the suffering of others, because that made them believe they were happy and that life had been generous with them.”

“You have to put up a fight if you don’t want others imposing their rules on you.”

“……You have passed through the the two hardest testes on the spiritual road: the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what you encounter.”

” You have to decided how far you can go.”

“You have two choices: to control your mind or to let your mind control you.”

“Don’t confuse madness with a loss of control.”

“… Thatz how it should be with you; stay mad, but behave like normal people. Run the risk of being different, but learn to do so without attracting attention.”

” It’s what you are, not what others make of you.”

“But human beings are like that, we have replaced nearly all our emotions with fear.”

” And since, I’m not afraid of losing you, i don’t care what you think or don’t think about me.”

” There are only two prohibitions, one according to man’s law and other according to God’s. Never force a sexual relationship on anyone, because that is considered to be rape. And never have sexual relations with children, because that is the worst of all sins. Apart from that, you are free. There’s always someone who wants excatly what you want.”

Negative thoughts :

” Nothing in this world happens by chance.”

“But it must be impossible to forget a shattered skull.”

Overall rating : OK.

 

Review of “Brida”

In search of her Soulmate

I just finished the book named “Brida”. Paulo Coelho has portrayed the young girl and her search of soulmate marvelously.  One would not miss to read this book at least once. These are some of the excerpts …

 

“There is no need to close your eyes. Look at the world around you and try to see and understand as much as you can. This is the firs t and most important lesson.”

 

“…She must trust it. And that trust is called Faith. No one could ever understand Faith, but Faith was what she was experiencing now, an inexplicable immersion in blackest night. It only existed because she believe in it. Miracles couldn’t be explained either, but they existed for those who believed in them.”

 

“I learned that the search for God is a Dark Night, that Faith is a Dark Night. And that’s hardly a surprise really, because for us each day is a dark night. None of us knows what might happen even the next minute, and yet still we go forwards. Because we trust. Because we have Faith. That every moment in life is an act of faith.”

 

“The path of wisdom means not being afraid to make mistakes.”

 

“Only by understanding the Soulmate can we understand how knowledge can be transmitted over time.”

 

“In certain reincarnations, we divide into two. Our souls divide as do crystals and stars, cells and plants. As well as dividing into two, we also find ourselves. And that process of finding ourselves is called Love. Because when a soul divides, it always divides into a male part and a female part.”

 

“In each life, we feel a mysterious obligation to find at least one of those Soulmates. The Greater Love that separated them feels pleased with the Love that brings them together again.”

 

“By risking failure, disappointment, disillusion, but never ceasing in your search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end.”

 

“Is it possible to meet more than one Soulmate in each life?”  ‘Yes’, with a certain bitterness. And when that happens, the heart is divided, and the result is pain and suffering. Yes, we can meet three or four Soulmates, because we are many and we are scattered.”

 

“We can also allow our Soulmate to pass us by, without accepting him or her, or even noticing. Then we will need another incarnation in order to find that Soulmate. And because of our selfishness, we will be condemned to the worst torture humankind ever invented for itself: loneliness.”

 

“The path of the life is and always will be path of Mystery. Learning something means coming into contact with a world of which you know nothing. In order to learn, you must be humble.”

 

“The other day, I spoke to you about one of the great secrets of magic: the Soulmate. The whole of man’s life on the face of Earth can be summed up by that search for his Soulmate. He may pretend to be running after wisdom, money or power, but none of that matters. Whatever he achieves will be incomplete if he fails to find his Soulmate.”

 

“The more you understand yourself, the more you will understand the world. And the closer you will be to your Soulmate.”

 

“God is the word. Always be careful what you say in any situation and at any moment. God manifests himself in everything, but the word is one of his most favoured methods of doing so, because the word is thought transformed into vibration; you are projecting into the air around you something which, before, was only energy. Take great care with everything you say.”

 

“Don’t bother trying to explain your emotions. Live everything as intensely as you can and keep whatever you felt as a gift from God. The best way to destroy the bridge between the visible and invisible is by trying to explain your emotions.”

 

“I am afraid of committing myself. Even in that most important area of her life, love, she had failed to commit herself. After her first romantic disappointment, she had never again given herself entirely. She feared pain, loss and separation. These things are inevitable on the path to love, and the only way of avoiding them was by deciding not to take that path at all. In order not to suffer, you had to renounce love. It was like putting out your own eyes in order not to see the bad things in life.”

 

“Life is so complicated. You had to take risks, follow some paths and abandon others. People who followed certain paths only to prove that they weren’t the right ones, but that wasn’t as bas as choosing a path and then spending the rest of your life wondering if you’d made the right choice. No one could make a choice without felling afraid.”

 

“Nothing in the world is ever completely wrong, even a stopped clock is right twice a day.”

 

“The Force for Good is always diffused, like Light. When you give off positive vibrations, you benefit all humankind, but when you concentrate the force of the Messenger, you are only benefiting – or harming – yourself.”

 

“There was always risk, a single risk: that one person might meet with more than one Soulmate in the same incarnation, as had happened millennia before.”

 

“What is outside is harder to change than what is inside.”

 

“Sometimes I think one thing and do another, but if you’ve ever felt love, you will know how painful it is to suffer for love.”

 

“..But emotions are, indeed, wild horses and they demanded to be heard.”

 

“Love don’t require kind of renunciation. True love allowed each person to follow their own path, knowing that they would never lose touch with their Soulmate.”

 

“Play your part and don’t worry about what others do. Believe that God also speaks to them, and that they are as engaged as you are in discovering the meaning of life.”

 

“Finding one important thing in your life doesn’t mean you have to give up all the other important things.”

 

“Life is about making mistakes. Never be afraid of making mistake.”                  

 

“No one can possess a sunset like the one we saw that evening. Just as no one can possess an afternoon of rain beating against the window, or the serenity of a sleeping child, or the magical moment when the waves break on he rocks. No one can possess the beautiful things of this Earth, but we can know them and love them. “

 

“That is what the forest taught me. That you will never be mine and that is why I will never lose you. You were my hope during my days of loneliness, my anxiety during moments of doubt, my certainty during moments of faith.”

 

“I will always remember now that love is liberty. I will always remember you and you will remember me, just as we will remember the evening, the rain on the windows, and all the things we will always have because we cannot possess them.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

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