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This one is fwd by one of my friend.

JUST ANOTHER DIMENSION TO LOOK AT LIFE… MAKES A HUGE IMPACT. TRUTHFULNESS APART, JUST READ ON…

Dear All,

I (Satyam Employee) am deputed at client location and came across a very interesting conversation in cafeteria yesterday. One of my co-worker, also deputed with the same client through some lesser known two room company, mustered guts to ask me sarcastically in front of entire team, “So, Satyam is gone! What are you guys planning to do now?” In normal circumstances, I have a habit to not to reply to lose talks, but in front of entire team…. I thought I need to fix this guy’s thought process. I asked him, as my military training has imbibed in me the habit to fight till last breadth, “Who says Satyam is gone when I am very much alive here and committed to create value on behalf of my company?”. He shot back, “Hello Mr., your chairman has resigned, you guys are facing financial turbulence and you still have a face to say that Satyam is not gone!”

At this juncture, I thought of replying to this guy in his own language. I asked him, “Tell me, what will you do and where will you go if our country India was not there?” He was not prepared for this level of thought and asked back, “What a stupid question, How can India be gone, it is a country?” I asked him back, “Country! What makes a country? Land? Economy? Our Prime Minister? Our President? Our Geography? Or the PEOPLE? If our PM resigns, will you say India is gone? If our economy faces a slowdown, will you say India is gone? But yes, if the people of a country are lost for any reason, we will say that country has no meaning. Who cares of vast land of Antarctica today which has just one permanent resident, Father Georgy? Which country does it belongs to? Why does not it has any government? Why does not it has any economy? Or, how many countries were there when humans used to hunt for food in pre-historic times? Countries, Wealth, Infrastructures and booming economies are nothing but creations of efforts of PEOPLE, and they do not have any existence on their own. And the final blow was, “When one man can create Satyam as an organization of 53,000 people, why not 53,000 committed people can rebuild one SATYAM?” 
TRULY INSPIRING…

What do you do?

What do you do when you feel the pressure on you is tremendous, when you feel like you can’t take anymore, when you feel that you reached your limit, when you cry so much knowing that things can’t be fixed, when you feel tremendous pain and there’s nothing you can do to relief it,  when you feel you had it with everything, what do you do?

These thoughts are going on in my mind at this moment. No no, this is not the case of break-up of any kind of relationship. But at this moment , i am feeling that i am in tremendous pressure. I don’t know what to do? i am not cause for anything whatever is happening. Somebody directly walk to me and putting blame on me. I just hate the people so called ” relatives”. They are the problem creators. Believe me, nobody is going to solve your problem. You and only you have to work on the problem to get the solution.  Anyways, This is life and am searching answer of  ” What do you do?” … :)

I got this e-mail by one of my friend. It is quite interesting. I just don’t agree with point 3. :)

 

LATELY, I have been thinking a lot about the Lehman crisis. Spending  money that they didn’t have and going beyond their means is one of the main reasons for their situation today. In fact that is the cause for the current economic crisis in the US.

When I see all this happening, I can only remember the good old days. Then, karz was bad. People looked down upon those who took loans. Parents would not give their daughter’s hand in marriage to a man with loans.

But of course, the times have changed now. Everyone I know has a loan. The buzz word is EMI (equated monthly installment). Today, you can buy every thing on EMI – a house, a television, an i-Pod. In fact I know of some one who just bought a fancy BMW 3 series on EMI, instead of buying a cheaper car outright with cash. I mostly prefer to take public transport, but then I am an old man with old thoughts!

Anyway, coming back to what caused the crisis. Imagine having Rs 2 lakh in your bank account, no regular income, yet buying a house worth Rs 65 lakh, in the hope of selling it for a higher price. Even if the price of the house fell by just 5 per cent (that is Rs 3 lakh), you will go bankrupt.

This is what Lehman Brothers did; with around USD 20 billion they went and bought assets worth over USD 600 billion. Isn’t it suicidal and simply foolish?

I am sure things would have been different, had I been the head of Lehman brothers. But who wants an old conservative man like me to head a complex financial institution.

But there are a few lessons that we can learn:

1.Live a balanced life and avoid overspending.

2. Don’t buy things we don’t need.

3. Don’t buy Branded good’s.

4. Don’t buy excess Food, Clothes, Cosmetics, Footwear, electronics and Fashion accuracies just think before you buy.

Tip: World still has a lot of growth ahead and the future holds immense opportunities for us. Let us make the most of it and save and invest it wisely instead of wasting our precious little on things we don’t need.

5. Try to balance life with work (No one is happy to work in their professions).

6. Don’t stress out your self, after work try to do some extra activities like swimming, yoga, walking, running where you can divert your mind from stress. A thumb rule: Health is more important than money.

7. Try to understand each other (Wife and Husband) in financial matter’s and help each other.

Tip: As soon as you get your monthly salary, set aside a fixed amount, usually 35 per cent, for insurance, savings and investments. You can then spend the rest.

8. Not all loans are bad. Loans that are ‘need based’ (home loans, education loans) can always find a place in your finances against those that are largely ‘want based’ (Credit cards, personal loans, car loans).

9. Borrow only if repayment is financially comfortable. A thumb rule: Keep EMIs within 35 to 45 per cent of your monthly income

In that respect, there is one American who I really respect – Warren Buffet. He has lived in the same ordinary house for over three decades, drives his own medium sized car and leads an extremely regular ‘middle class’ life. If that’s all it takes for the richest person on earth to be  happy, why do all of us need to take extra stress just so that we can get things which aren’t even essential?

Does time really matter?

We generally hear these words from the people ” I don’t have time” . I really don’t understand how can one pass these kind of statement. Everybody has same amount of time and that is 24 hrs in a day. It is up to each individual to manage it. For me time  =  care. If you spend time with somebody or you give time to somebody, it means you really care for him/her. I don’t mean that one has to shoot emails or give calls like we get for credit cards ( :-) ) . But i certainly believe this ..

Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it, you can never get it back.

We all have a measured amount of time. Nobody knows (to the day/minute/second) how much time they have left to live. So the amount of time you spend with an individual (or doing something for that individual) determines how much you actually care for them. I mean seriously, face it! You won’t give your enemy more than a few seconds (if even that) but more than likely you will give your family and friends hours or days. You will take the time — even amid a crazy schedule — to spend time with people you truly love.

I wish, for whom i am writing this will understand. Just remember: words aren’t everything! Give the person your time and show them with actions that the words aren’t just empty. You actually mean what you say! Prove it!

So does time really matter? ………

Cheers….

:)

Let me clarify… i always think positively .. But sometimes my heart and mind doesn’t sync.. that time these thoughts come into my mind….

Yes. I am a woman. I am smart, brilliant, popular and friendly. I am very successful in my career….

In fact; I have a lot of friends who care for me a lot!!

Do I really have true friends?

I don’t know…. May be i don’t feel comfortable to share my feelings and thoughts with them….May be my ego doesn’t allow me to share my thoughts with them… i always think not to cry or cribbing in front of others as it is just waste of time for others.

Everyone likes my presence, everyone loves my company,  but no one actually knows me, strange isn’t?

I try hard to laugh when people surrounding me begin to laugh aloud rather than bursting into tears behind closed doors for my emotional trauma and finally ending up suffering in silence. But why does it always happen to me?

The truth is – I really don’t know.

At home, I have sacrificed my personal happiness to play the role of an obedient daughter and an understanding sister expecting nothing in return. I don’t mean that i have sacrificed my career. Sometimes i feel that i am living as a stranger in my own family; I wish to keep myself happy by an artificial smile;  All fingers pointing at me; for every decision I take.

Sometimes; I wish to run away.

As a woman, I too have dreams – dancing in rain, being surrounded by flowers and valued for my worth. I do not wish to be a puppet in society anymore and crave to control my lost strings of freedom.

With my cherished dream still remaining unfulfilled – Accepting me as I am.

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I am through with “Witch of Portobello”. Though, it is not as per my expectation like other books written by Paulo Coelho, enlighten spiritual energy thorugh so called Witch character.

Overall rating : ***

Food for thoughts from this book:

“No one lights a lamp in order to hide it behind the door: the purpose of light is to create more light, to open people’s eyes, to reveal the marvels around.”

“No one places her dreams in the hands of those who might destroy them.”

“When reason lost the battle, and all I could do was surrender and accept that i was in love.”

“If there is any possible consolation in the tragedy of losing someone we love very much, it’s the necessary hope that perhaps it was for the best.”

“How many of us will be saved the pain of seeing the most important things in out lives disappearing from one moment to the next? I don’t just mean people, but our ideas and dreams too: we might survive a day, a week, a few years, but we’re all condemned to lose. Our body remains alive, yet, sooner or later, our soul will receive the mortal blow.”

“No one can manipulate anyone else. In any relationship, both parties know what they are doing, even if one of them complains later on that they were used.”

“It isn’t good to speak ill of people who have passed from this life onto the astral plane.”

“….She was always flirting with danger. They say extroverts are unhappier than introverts, and have to compensate for this by consatantly proving to themselves how happy and contented and at ease with life they are.”

“If man we don’t know phones us up one day and talks a little, makes no suggestions, says nothing special, but nevertheles pays us the kind of attention we rarely receive, we’re quite capable of going to bed with him that same night, feeling relatively in love. That’s what we women are like, and there’s nothing wrong with that – it’s the nature of the female to open herself to love easily.”

“Her greatest problem was that she was a woman of the twenty-second century living in the twenty-first, and making no secret of the fact either.”

“I’ve lived on a battlefield since i was born, but i’m still alive and i don’t need anyone to protect me.”

“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I -

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.”

“I am only happy when i think that God exists and is listening to me; but that isn’t enough to go on living, when nothing seems to make sense. I pretend a happiness i don’t feel;  I hide my sadness so as not to worry those who love me and care about me.”

” If i don’t feel life growing inside me, I’ll never be able to accept life outside me.”

“My real family left forever. And the family i’d been born into received me with open arms.”

“When the pain abated – and time is the only cure for that.”

” You can’t measure love the way you can the length of a road or the height of a building.”

“Because all my life I’ve learned to suffer in silence.”

“In life, too, it’s the culminating point, the goal of all those who, like everyone else, make mistakes, but who, even in their darkest moments, never lose sight of the light emanating from their hearts.”

“I’ve noticed that loneliness gets stronger when we try to face it down, but gets weaker when we simply ignore it.”

“Her silence was the blank spaces between the words.”

“I don’t see why i should bother to look for someone who never took trouble to love me.”

“If you’re not in touch with your roots, you feel as if you’d lost touch with the world.”

“… seeks contact with the upper and lower world, but always ends up destroying her own life – she serves others, gives out energy, but receives nothing in return.”

“..It’s because for those who travel, time doesn’t exist, only space.”

“The light is unstable, the wind blows it out, the lightning ignites it, it is never simply there, shining like the sun, but it is worth fighting for.”

“We’re surrounded by Universal Desire. It’s not happiness; it’s desire. And desires are never stisfied, because once they are, they cease to be desires.”

“Belive in your ablilities; believe that you have already arrived where you wanted to arrive.”

“Faith is not desire. Faith is Will. Desires are things that need to be satisfied, whereas Will is a force. Will changes the space around us.”

“Instead of trying to prove that you’re better than you think, just laugh. Laugh at your worries and insecurities. View your anxieties with humour. It will be difficult at first, but you’ll gradually get used to it.”

“It was more important to give than to receive, but while these were wise words, i was part of what is known as ‘humanity’, with frailties, my moments of indecision, my desire simply to live in peace, to be the slave of my feelings and to surrender myself without asking any questions, without even knowing if my love was reciprocated.”

“We are not the slaves of our feelings, but their masters. We serve and are served.”

“When hatred makes a person grow, it’s transformed into one of the many ways of loving.”

I talk. A lot. All my friends know that once I get started, I usually don’t shut up, especially if it involves talking about myself. As I’ve become more aware of this fact over the last few years, I’ve consciously made the effort to shut my mouth and listen more. As hard as I try, I still talk a lot, and I talk loudly.

I don’t, however, talk about my emotions. I’ll discuss anger towards politics, or happiness about going to the beach, or sleepiness when I’m exhausted. But I don’t discuss my feelings about my relationships, and I definitely don’t talk about the break-up.

I have a hard time asking for help, of any kind. I’m independent and refuse to show any sign of weakness. Because of this, I wait to express myself until I can’t hold it in anymore. Then I lose my shit for about an hour, and then I’m over it again.

Luckily for me, I have amazing friends. Amazing friends who realize this about me. After reading this post on my blog, i am sure they will be worried about me and are there for me if I need them. They understand that talking about it isn’t my thing, and they don’t push the issue.

The thing is, I don’t mind talking about it because it makes me emotional – it doesn’t. I just don’t want to talk about it because it’s not productive. Logically, I have it all figured out. I know why he left, I know what he was thinking, where he was coming from, and that there was nothing I did to cause it (or could do to fix it). I fully understand the reasoning and I’m confident that I’m going to fall in love again and find a wonderful person and eventually will end up with The One. I know these things – in my head.

My heart hasn’t exactly caught up. It’s been a struggle to keep my head and my heart from communicating these past few months. I’ve been mostly successful, but there have been a few instances where I’ve just let it all go. This is healthy, and I don’t fight it when it comes. I just don’t want him to consume my life. I don’t let men consume my life after they’ve left me.

I just need time. I need time to think and to process and to forgive and to forget and to heal. My friends are giving me that, and I love them for it. I know that when I want to talk about it, they’ll listen. They’ll listen and not offer advice unless I ask for it. It’s not the advice I need – I give that to myself with my logical head. I just sometimes need comfort for my heart.

Stood on the corner for a while
To wait for the wind to blow down on me
Hoping it takes with it my old ways
And brings some brand new luck upon me
Oh it’s taking so long I could be wrong, i could be ready
Oh but if I take my heart’s advice
I should assume it’s still unsteady
I am in repair, I am in repair

In Repair – John Mayer

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You don’t know it yet,
But one day you’re gonna have regrets.
When you realize your foolish ways,
You’re gonna love me one day.
And it might take some time,
But my love is like a vintage wine.
And it gets better as it grows with age, hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.

You’ll be sorry, you’ll be blue,
And there’s nothin’ I can do.
‘Cos everything you’ve done to me,
Is comin’ back to you.

And when you see the light,
And you’re havin’ lots of sleepless nights,
Will you dream about your castaways? Hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.

-

You’ll be sorry, you’ll be blue,
And there’s nothin’ I can do.
‘Cos everything you’ve done to me,
Is comin’ back to you.

And when you see the light,
And you’re havin’ lots of sleepless nights,
Will you dream about your castaways? Hey, hey,
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.
You’re gonna love me one day.

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