What do you do when you feel the pressure on you is tremendous, when you feel like you can’t take anymore, when you feel that you reached your limit, when you cry so much knowing that things can’t be fixed, when you feel tremendous pain and there’s nothing you can do to relief it, when you feel you had it with everything, what do you do?
These thoughts are going on in my mind at this moment. No no, this is not the case of break-up of any kind of relationship. But at this moment , i am feeling that i am in tremendous pressure. I don’t know what to do? i am not cause for anything whatever is happening. Somebody directly walk to me and putting blame on me. I just hate the people so called ” relatives”. They are the problem creators. Believe me, nobody is going to solve your problem. You and only you have to work on the problem to get the solution. Anyways, This is life and am searching answer of ” What do you do?” …
The rules of this world-
1. Be selfish- To save others, you have to exist and To exist you have to save yourself first. Unless of course you find something that is much big enough to sacrifice your interest and that very act gives you joy.Which of course points to a selfish decision.
2. The road to your destination is never straight- You have to make a choice as you reach a crossroad, fork , junction that you may find at any moment in life. And if you are honest with yourself , you will always take the right choice and never get lost. You see, it is not the destination that is important, it is not the road you take but how well you travel the road you take that matters.
3. All relationships are variables that change with time, interactions, and events. The most important factor is to know and accurately update the current list of favorite relationship. That list will guide the the rule no1 and 2.
Thanks for putting your views. This one is quite interesting. But you know, i can’t be selfish. Thats the biggest flaw. I am trying to improve.. Lets c how far i can go…
BTW, i dont need any sympathy from anybody. This is just what i felt and i wrote.
i write blog post
very funny.. i also do the same..
Find a good friend, dump all your thoughts on him/her and Get relax. [Or watch Jab we met]
Hmmm…. now am serious.
We few friends are going to start a blog http://www.facethecase.com
Pay attention to your parents, they will never think wrong of you [unless its reality]. Trust them.
Well! I go silent, the Zen way. Focus all my energies on what I want and only give direct answers to direct questions the so called ‘relatives’ either let me alone or realize that they are more of trouble then they think of being helpful. You cant always keep everyone happy and give them what they want.