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Speak slowly, I can’t hear you
My mind keeps spinning closer and closer
To the rain on the roof
And the rain in my head
And the things that you said
Keep on taking further ahead

And it just gets so foggy
It’s nowhere in here
And it’s everywhere else
That I don’t want to be

But I’m stuck here
Getting misty over you

– Black Hole

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Ab

Just thinking about you. Hope, you don’t mean whatever you said. I really appreciate your honesty.

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Yeah, Its been a long time, i haven’t posted. I am going through the email sent by one of my dear friends. Its worth to think about this:

Sometimes we over analyze real life situations and have this growing sense of self pity inside us. This feeling always gives us thoughts which picturise us always receiving the wrong end of the stick in life. The truth might not always be true if we touch our heart and see. Its just that our expectations in life and from people around us or circumstances that we are facing, have got the better of us. Expectation is the silent killer which murders millions of mushy and time tested relationships. If there would have been no expectations from anyone, the world would have been a much better place to be. If there would have been no expectations, not many people would have had an aching heart and a life long grouse against their would have been better halves. If it wouldn’t have been for unreasonable expectations not many couples would have divorced each other.

How to come out of expectations then? Good question. The answer is when you give something, don’t expect anything in return. When our mother gave birth to us, she never expected that we will give birth to her. She just fulfilled her desire to raise a family and live for them. In the same way, let our actions make us live for our self and let not expectation screw up the major portion of your lives. Let us have the freedom and will power to express our love, affection and longingness for people whenever we feel. Let us not restrict our freedom of expression just because he or she is not responding the way we want them to.

Well all in all a little bit of loneliness is good for a self analysis to keep a check over your actions. Introspection always make you communicate with the inner self. But too much of introspection can make u scale the altitude of self pity. So show restrain at the right time.

It’s a fine line between up and down.
Between anger and sadness.
Between power and weakness.
Between hope and despair.
Between together and separate.

– Deepak Chandrasekaran

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